Showing posts with label Books. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Books. Show all posts

Wednesday, 5 August 2020

Frugal Muslimah: Boot Fair Bargains July 2020

We managed to make it to one or two boot fairs in July. The best one being Boreham boot fair in Essex. On this occasion there were a lot of sellers, not many buyers and a lot of bargains to be had. We went late and before long people started packing up, so we grabbed a few bits:


This was only £1, but I knew it wasn’t a good idea as soon as I bought it. I got it home and the kids argued over it then managed to get tiny sweets all over the place before I had to confiscate and hide it.





The Horrible Science books were 50p for the whole stack and the two at the bottom (picked by the Babies) were 20p each. My younger son loved the Horrible series and learned a lot from them.



These learning books were around 50p each, with the Crayola handwriting practice board £1



GCSE practice books for £1, my older son has missed so much school, hopefully these will be some help for his GCSE exams next year insh'Allah.



These books were for me and were 50p each, except for The Bone Clocks which was £2. I really love this writers first book (Cloud Atlas), so was keen to try another by him. I’ve just started reading We Are All Completely Beside Ourselves by Karen Joy Fowler and have heard good things about it.



Somebody kindly gave these to me for free. I may not keep them and will either pass them on or donate to a charity shop, as I use the internet for recipes. But I think I’ll have a quick flick through for inspiration.



This was my fave bargain: a rope of glass crystal with a sparkly, rainbow AB (Aurora Borealis) finish for 50p. I have a project in mind for these (see next post 😊)



I really enjoyed bargain hunting. I hope to do one more boot fair before the summer is out.


Saturday, 2 May 2020

Ramadan 2020/1441: Ramadan Gratitude Journal Day 9

What books are you grateful for?
I love books, they have been both my distraction and my sanctuary. They have opened my eyes to the big wide world and been somewhere for me to go and hide.

I am grateful to the books that have helped me grow:
The Autobiography of Malcom X
Women who Run with Wolves by Clarissa Pinkola Estes
Finding Your Own North Star by Martha Beck
Zen and the Art of making a Living by Laurence G Bold
I Could do Anything if Only I knew What it Was by Barbara Sher

I am grateful for the books that have kept me entertained and engrossed:
Dracula by Bram Stoker
The Chrysalids by John Wyndham
The Lord of the Rings by JRR Tolkien
A Thousand Splendid Suns by Khaled Hosseini
The Lieutenant by Kate Grenville
and so many more I can't list them all.

I am thankful for the book that made me hold my faith in even greater awe:
The Sealed Nectar by Sheikh Safi-ur-Rahman al-Mubarakpuri
Life of the Prophet in Makkah: The Makkan Crucible by Zakaria Bashier
Fazail e Amaal and Fazail e Sadaqat by Muhammad Zakariyya al-Kandhlawi

But there is only really one answer to this question:
The Holy Quran, a gift to us, a source of guidance and a never ending source of learning, insight, healing and hope alhamdulillah



What books are you grateful for?

You can find the original Ramadan Gratitude journal challenge here and my take on it here.

Wednesday, 6 November 2019

40 at 40: My Favourite Books

I needed something easy to write about while I was feeling a little brain dead and stuck and this felt like an easy list to make. Forty of my favourite books by the age of forty.


1.     The Sealed Nectar by Sheikh Safi-ur-Rahman al-Mubarakpuri – an important and easy to read biography of the beloved Prophet ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), covering all of the important thing you need to know.
2.     Life of the Prophet in Makkah: The Makkan Crucible by Zakaria Bashier – some details I had not seen anywhere else.  The part where the Kaaba was rebuilt and green stone found under the foundations gave me goose bumps
3.     The Autobiography of Malcom X – brutally honest, brave, eye-opening and inspiring
4.     Dracula by Bram Stoker – creepy, interesting and just a cracking good story
5.     The Chrysalids by John Wyndham – absolutely love this book: the characters, the setting, the way even the villains stayed with me long after and of course the brilliant story. Unlike any of his other books in tone or style.
6.     The Day of the Triffids by John Wyndham – walking plants in a dystopian/utopian future – a favourite genre
7.     The Lord of the Rings by JRR Tolkien – old fashion story-telling peopled with wonderful characters, who couldn’t love the hobbits?
8.     Cannery Row by John Steinbeck – unexpectedly funny book by a writer of usually grim novels.
9.     Finding Your Own North Star by Martha Beck – I find inspiration every time I open one of her books:
“The way to find your own North Star is not to think or feel your way forward but to dissolve the thoughts and feeling that make you miserable. You don't have to learn your destiny - you already know it; you just have to unlearn the thoughts that blind you to what you know.”
10. A Thousand Splendid Suns by Khaled Hosseini – sisterly love and sacrifice in a society that has no place for women, This one had me sobbing.
11. The Red Tent – an interesting re-telling of one of the bible stories from the point of view of one of the women. I loved the opening lines in this book:
"I am so grateful that you have come. I will pour out everything inside me so you may leave this table satisfied and fortified. Blessings on your eyes. Blessings on your children. Blessings on the ground beneath you. My heart is a ladle of sweet water, brimming over.
12. The Rice Mother by Rani Manicka – a heart-breaking, painful read set in a beautifully imagined place.
13. Cloud Atlas by David Mitchell – expansive, mysterious, satisfying
14. Kiss Kiss by Roald dahl – deliciously wicked stories for grown-ups by one of my favourite children's writers.
15. Beloved by Toni Morrison (and just about everything else she has written)
16. Cold Comfort farm by Stella Gibbons – had me laughing out loud.
17. That Old Ace in the Hole by Annie Proulx (and all of her other books of short stories) – just such a good writer.
18. The Exorcist by William Peter Blatty – this scared me god when I read it in my early teens – as much because I was looking over my shoulder for moy parents who would never have let me read it as how scary the book actually was.  I think I am due to re-read this one to see which.
19. From the Holy Mountain by William Dalrymple - I wouldn't have expected a travel book to be so fascinating and Dalrymple's writing has a lovely humour (worth reading other travel books by him including White Mughals and City of Djinns)
20. The Olive Readers by Christine Aziz – didn't get the best reviews and the feel of the book changed abruptly midway, but I remember finding it quite satisfying.
21. Women who Run with Wolves by Clarissa Pinkola Estes– paradigm shifting for me, made me rethink my approach to ageing:
“To take the world into one's arms and act towards it in a soul-filled and soul-strengthening manner is a powerful act of wildish spirit.”
22. Lightening by Dean Koontz – I'm not sure what it is about this book that stuck in my mind when I read it as a teen, but it always stayed with me.  I re-read it as an adult and enjoyed it, and it is still the archetypical Koontz book to me, but perhaps not the impact the first reading had (His The Taking had the most impact as an adult).
23. Zorro by Isabel Allende – so much fun.
24. Daughter of the Forest by Juliette Marillier – I love a good retelling of a fairy or folk tale and once you get started, you will want to tear through the Sevenwaters series.
25. The Handmaids Tale by Margret Atwood – cracking story, ramps up the tension.
26. Love in the Time of Cholera by Gabriel Garcia Marquez – I rarely have patience for surrealism and other literary pretentions, but in this case the writer is justified, writing under a brutal regime of things that can't be said out loud.
27. Zen and the Art of making a Living by Laurence G Boldt – probably my favourite self-help book of all and one I still enjoy randomly dipping into.
28. Dune by Frank Herbert – fun, creative, dramatic space saga
29.  I Could do Anything if Only I knew What it Was by Barbara Sher – Read this at an impressionably young age and found it profound and eye-opening at the time, particularly how your future is laid out by the views and wishes of others.
30. Eucalyptus by Murray Bail – poignant story that stayed with me after closing the last page.
31. The Lieutenant by Kate Grenville – heart breaking love story or commentary on colonialism. No easy answers here.
32. The Shadow of the Wind – Carlos Ruiz Zafon, mystery, romance, humour, a secret library, lovable characters, all the ingredients you need and well written too.
33. The Help by Kathryn Stockett – worth it just for the chocolate cake scene 😊
34. Tommy Knockers by Stephen King – creepy, archetypical Stephen King, I still have to read the Stand, but sounds like just my kind of book.
35. The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz – some good ideas to live by.
36. The Bees by Laline Paul – I didn't think I would like this, the characters are bees...but I loved it.
37. Toxic Childhood: How the Modern World is Damaging Our Children and What We Can Do About It by Sue Palmer – a must read parenting book.
38. The Underground Railroad by Coulson Whitehead – moving book on a difficult subject, loved the main character.  Also interesting insight into elements of slavery in America I had not known about before.
39. Jinnah, Pakistan and Islamic Identity: The Search for Saladin by Akbar S Ahmed – well written, accessible and insightful.
40. The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R Covey – such a useful book.

I thought that would be a tough list to get to 40, but my brain is fizzing over with more to add 😊. Ones I loved but didn't make the list include:

Delirium by Lauren Oliver - a dystopian love story
The Grishaverse books Leigh Bardugo (the Six of Crows duology and the Shadow and Bone trilogy)
The Hannibal series of books by Thomas Harris
The Road by Cormac McCarthy – but too harrowing to include it in a favourites list
The King Killer Chronicles (Trilogy) by Patrick Rothfuss
Walden by Henry David Thoreau
Mornings in Jenin by Susan Abulhawa
The Giver by Louis Lowry
Big Magic by Elizabth Gilbert

Ok I better stop now...


On my wish list going forward for the coming year are:
More Islamic books including tafsir and seerah
The Stand by Stephen King
Something by Martha Beck to get me feeling inspired.
Ruin and Rising by Leigh Bardugo, then King of Scars by her
The Testaments by Margaret Atwood
Pandemonium by Lauren Oliver (a sequel to Delirium which I didn’t realise until now existed).

What are you favourite books? What would you recommend me to read next? What’s on your reading wishlist?




Monday, 29 April 2019

World Book Night 2019

I caught wind of World Book Night quite late in the day, but I had been inspired by my friend PT from Ireland and the way she always makes time for tea and stories or poetry for her precious little ones.  My older ones are avid readers, particularly Little Lady and Gorgeous (thankfully it keeps him civilised for hours at a time in between his riotous cheerful mischief and noise).

This being the case, I tend to leave the older ones to read alone and focus on the babies.  They are also still small enough to be keen on tea parties, picnics, book nights and the idea of staying up.

They chose a few books and I picked the book recommended by the lovely AF, also from Ireland (I’m getting such good vibes from that direction): Circe by Madeline Miller (review to follow insh'Allah). We supplemented with pyjama’s, cuddly blankets and the chocs that ShutterbugSister had dropped off earlier.  The babies being lightweights, babies, dropped off very soon before any chocolate was touched, but I managed to get a good few hours of leisurely reading in.  Definitely more of these nights for me insh’Allah. 



Tuesday, 2 April 2019

Picture of the Day 02.04.19: Beautiful Books

I was travelling for work today for a team away day and came across these lovely books in Wanstead Library: a selection of Penguin cloth bound classics.  Beautiful covers in bright colours are in fashion right now because people like to take artful pictures of stylish bookshelves (book shelfies).  

These were more than just display copies because they had been used and the cover art was starting to fade, which seemed better. Books are meant to be handled, read, digested, discussed and shared more than photographed (I probably shouldn’t mention the time I hit my sister with one, taking photo’s of books would still theoretically rank as better than hitting with books…)









Monday, 14 January 2019

My Annual Reading List for 2019

I have never done this before, but I came across the idea in this post by the wonderful Shaunta Grimes: an annual reading list. My goals for 2019 include some books to read as does my 2019 100 things bucket list (although I haven’t got quite to 100 yet 😊).

I like the idea and It would be nice to check back at the end of the year and see how many I managed. 

Islamic Books
Read the Quran completely at least twice or more, including one reading during Ramadan.

Tafsir Ibn Kathir – This is considered to be one of the most comprehensive and complete commentaries on the Quran. I have this at home in ten volumes because my husband randomly turned up with it one day from a removal job.  Top of my list to read insh’Allah

Eight Islamic biographies – I have some at home including those of the four caliphs (RA), the great military strategist and companion of the Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) Khalid bin Walid and Salahuddin Ayyubi.  Hopefully the rest will be of women, including the Mothers of the Believers (RA).

Hayat-us-Sahabah (Lives of the Sahabah) by Muhammad Yusuf ibn Muhammad Ilyas Kandihlawi al-Dihlawi.  I have this in five volumes and have read bits in isolation.  I would like to read the whole series again.

Beheshti Zewar (Heavenly Ornaments) by Mawlānā Ashraf Ali Thanvi, this is a wide-ranging breakdown of various issues for women including law (fiqh).  I read this some twenty plus years ago and it stood me in good stead over the years in helping me understand how to practice my faith with confidence and take away a lot of the uncertainty around key areas like child birth, menstruation as they pertain to faith.  One I hope to read again this year for a refresh.

There are a few more Islamic books sitting on my bedside table that I have started reading at various points and not finished.  I hope to get through some of these.  Other than this I would like to learn more about the lives of the Mothers of the Believers (RA) and the female companions (RA) of the beloved Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wasallam).  I am intensely interested in the everyday lives and the ordinary details of their lives: what they wore, ate, looked like, how they ordered their days.




Non-fiction
There are two areas of non-fiction that interest me: political/opinion and self-help.  For political, in particular those that touch on themes of race and Palestine interest me deeply. There are a few I have at home that I am trying to finish:




I have been a fan of self-help since my teens and have quite a few at home I still haven’t read.  I gave my book shelf a big clear out at the start of the year, so what is left are the ones that appeal:



The Secret Lives of Colour by Kassia St Clair is a book I have been eyeing up for weeks at the bookshop near my office.  I treated myself to it on book store points and look forward to indulging two of my loves together: books and colour.




Fiction

Ever since I organised my bookshelf, changing from thematic ordering to colour blocking, lots of the books that have been hidden at the back have come to the front and are inspiring me.  I hope to make a dent in some of these stacks.  Little Lady has already read TheHate U Give (THUG below) and is encouraging me to try it.







I would love to read the third instalment of The King Killer Chronicles by Patrick Rothfuss, after really enjoying the first two in the series but I don’t think there is any news on a release date. Other than that, I plan to sneak in some really fun books with a cracking story line: the type you just can’t put down, perhaps Young Adult.

I had so much fun with my office book club last year, I am also hoping to read another ten to twelve books through that.  Hopefully this year they will be ones I enjoy, last years choices were hit and miss.

I think this book list is probably a bit ambitious for one year, and I am not too confident that I will get though all of it, but I intend to have fun and learn something trying.  I hope to spend less time on my phone and internet surfing and more time reading insh’Allah.

Picture of the Day 14.01.19: Books and Cookies

Gorgeous and I are doing a first for us at the moment.  We are both reading the same book. Its’ Dracul by Dacre Stoke and J. D. Barker. I picked it because it is a prequel to Bram Stokers Dracula which is one of my most favourite ever books. He read the blurb and thought it looked interesting.

The way it works is that it lives in my bedroom, when one of us puts it down, the other can pick it up and we both keep our own book marks.  So far I am ahead, but I started earlier.  I am enjoying the book, but I am loving that he is reading a big book and also that we can discuss it as we go.

I came home from work today to find him settling in with the book and a pack of cookies, crunching away loudly.  I just hope he doesn’t give away too much if he gets ahead.



Wednesday, 9 January 2019

Book Shelf Therapy


My bookshelf has been a mess for some time with more books than I can read anytime soon, everyone dumping all sorts of things on it and the whole thing looking cluttered.  With encouragement coming from the unlikely source of Harlequin Sister wielding Instagram snaps of aesthetically pleasing book-shelves, I decided to give in to my inner organiser and give it a tidy.



The first step as to be brutal about getting rid of those books that I would never read again, or that didn’t really appeal to me.  These are some of my university textbooks and I have held on for sentimental reasons and because perhaps I thought they might come in handy if I ever did my Masters.  20 years later, they are pretty out of date. In the end I filled about a dozen bags of books to get rid of.  I am wondering if they are any good to anyone, otherwise I will take them a few at a time to the charity shop.




I have always grouped my books by genre and theme. Non-fiction by parenting, self-help, biographies for example and fiction by classics, horror, Young Adult for instance.  It just makes sense to me.  After looking at the mess/dumping ground my beloved bookshelf has become over the last few months, sense went out of the window and I did the easiest and most pleasing thing to the eye.  Ordered everything by colour.  It goes completely against the grain, but I love how it looks:








I am enjoying my book shelf at the moment, it makes me smile every time I go past.  Now I have to make sure no one tries dumping their junk on it.